Speak Out For Yourself (or someone else will)

Image: Cindy yelling into a megaphone

Have you ever had someone put words in your mouth? It can be simply annoying, like when someone finishes a sentence for you in a way you didn’t intend. But it’s far worse when someone deliberately speaks for you, saying the opposite of what you believe.

I thought about this as I listened to a BBC radio report in the car. British reporter James Menendez attended a rodeo in Defiance, MO to interview people about how Midwestern Americans feel about the U.S. presidential election. I’ve lived in the Midwest all my life in Minnesota, Wisconsin, Michigan, Illinois, and now Missouri. I consider myself solidly a Midwestern voter. It offended me that the only person who got to speak at length on his views was ultra-wealthy conservative Trump supporter Billy Busch of the famous Busch beer dynasty. As a Harris supporter fighting to keep Trump out of office, I felt misrepresented. I wondered if Trudy Busch Valentine, one of Billy’s relatives who ran as a Democrat for Senate in 2022 heard it, too, and felt the same way.

Moms’ Voices

As a suburban mom, it’s particularly important for me to speak out because there are all sorts of people trying to speak for me. I need to express my enthusiasm for providing nutrition for people in poverty, protecting trans kids and other LGBTQ+ folk, ending gun violence, and ensuring we have access to abortion as healthcare. Otherwise the “Moms for Liberty” group and conservative media will lump my demographic in with them when they lobby against LGBTQ+ rights and support book banning. Sure, I’m a mom who likes liberty, but that’s NOT me!

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Kamala Harris in their first presidential debate.

Male politicians repeatedly tell us what kinds of restrictions women want on our bodily autonomy. It happened last night at the first debate between Vice President Kamala Harris and former President Donald Trump. Trump falsely claimed that the Supreme court ruling to overturn Roe V. Wade was what everyone wanted, saying, “Democrats, Republicans and everybody else, and every legal scholar, wanted it to be brought back into the states.” Thankfully, Harris pushed back on this with poignant stories of women who most definitely did not want that. I didn’t want that, nor did the thousands of people in Missouri who scrambled to put reproductive rights on the ballot this November.

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Swift's Instagram image with her cat,
Benjamin Button

Taylor Swift’s Voice

Even someone as famous as Taylor Swift had someone take try to take her voice. Her endorsement Kamala Harris for president, included this statement, “Recently I was made aware that AI of ‘me’ falsely endorsing Donald Trump’s presidential run was posted to his site. It really conjured up my fears around AI, and the dangers of spreading misinformation. It brought me to the conclusion that I need to be very transparent about my actual plans for this election as a voter. The simplest way to combat misinformation is with the truth.” 

(By the way, do you have any Swifties in your house who are too young to vote, but want to help Taylor's candidate win? Send them to the Sunrise Movement, the youth-led climate justice org that has AWESOME phone banks that is perfect for middle and high schoolers to join!)

Claim Your Own Voice

The best way to claim your own political voice is to use it. State your values in a way that is right and genuine for you. Maybe you can do it by posting on social media like Taylor, or writing a letter to the editor, or just putting out a yard sign or two. Don't be silent now. If we find politics distasteful and choose to not talk about it or - even worse - not vote, there are plenty of people on the other side who are more than willing to speak for us. They’ll be happy to pass policies that will serve them, not us and our families. Find a way to share your opinions, so no one can take them away from you. You might find you have more influence than you knew and can inspire others to speak out, too!

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