Ever since the death of young African-American Mike Brown and the subsequent rioting in Ferguson this summer, I've been struggling here in St. Louis to find a way to talk to my kids about race privilege and economic privilege in a way they can truly understand. You see, as I talked about in my World Mom's Blog post - #Ferguson is Closer Than We Think - we are geographically only about a half hour drive from the city of Ferguson, but in a practical sense, my kids live in a different reality than the kids going to school there. Unexpectedly, I think I've stumbled upon the perfect illustration for their comprehension level: the Scripps National Spelling Bee.
2015 MO/IL Regional Spelling Bee finalists await
their next challenge.
At first blush, it seems like spelling is an even playing field. After all, no one is excluded from participating and either you spell the words right or you don't. The kids all start with the same spelling list to memorize at the school level and everyone can have access to the official Scripp's spelling bee dictionary (Webster's 3rd Edition Unabridged) from which the regional words are pulled. But it doesn't take too much thought or imagination to realize it's not an even playing field at all. Can a child of a racial minority who lives in poverty win the bee? Of course. Would a child of such a background have a much tougher time? Definitely.
I was happy I could coach and accompany my daughter all the way through to our regional spelling bee level. As she dreamed of what it might be like to hold the trophy, I did what a good coach would do...thought about the probabilities of her getting there and what kind of preparation would help her get to her goal. I bought her a dictionary. We researched together to find helpful spelling lists. We spent hours looking up pronunciations and drilling words. I bought her a few resource books and signed her up for an online training tool. We had fun together with her new project, but the more time, energy, and dollars I sunk into it, the more I suspected that some other competitors might not be having the same experience.
Sure, it seems like everyone has the same resources - a dictionary, the internet, and word lists from Scripps - but here is the reality:
- I've given my kid access to a dictionary and a computer at home, so she doesn't have to be limited in the hours she can study at a school or public library
- I'm a work-from-home mom with a very flexible work schedule. I have time to learn about spelling coaching and train with her in the evenings
- I hold a master's degree and am currently a writer. I love words. I know how to study. Because my PhD parents gave me the gift of a great education, I have the skills to show her how to study well and love words, too.
- My child has been surrounded by books since birth and has always gone to schools where she has been challenged by loving teachers who do their jobs well.
- My child has been surrounded by other students who like to learn, too. She has never been made fun of by other students for seeming too "brainy"
I'm not the first one to discover a microcosm of privilege in the world of the Scripps Bee. The issue is evident in two movies about the Scripps Bee: Akeelah and the Bee and Spellbound. In the fictional Akeelah and the Bee, the main character is an African American girl who overcomes a crumbling family support system, a failed school, taunting from other students, and lack of resources to follow her spelling dreams. Spellbound is a documentary without Akeelah's Hollywood happy ending where the filmmakers follow the triumphs and disappointments of eight teenagers from different backgrounds. Family culture, support, and economic status play a big part in this true-life drama.
So...it's not fair. Life isn't fair. Should we walk away from it or can we make it at least more fair? What should my daughter and I take away from this? Economic and race privilege is a thorny systematic issue that can't be solved by one person and her kid. But as for me, I'm not one to do nothing just because I can't do everything.
Here's my plan. In the short term, I'm going to keep fighting for programs that benefit low-income Americans like SNAP (food stamp) and school lunch funding...because if a student is hungry, she can't develop and focus properly nor learn to her fullest potential. In the long term, I'm going to figure out - with my own daughter as a guinea pig - how to be a good spelling coach. As we make up our cards and resources, I'm going to figure out how to do this, so I can become a good tutor and coach to some kids who don't have anyone to do that for them.
I can't to everything, but I can do some things...especially the things I'm good at...so that's what I intend to do.