I'm so glad I met Julia Jenkins. She is so many things, including...a mom-of-three, a fun/classy lady, and a Noonday Collection Ambassador. If you haven't heard of Noonday, think of it as a fair-trade fashion company that will throw trunk shows at your house with some of the proceeds helping adoptive families. "Wow!" right?
Julia is as passionate as I am about empowering girls and women. I love the fact that she does it in a different way than I do, but it all comes from the same place of love, hope, and practical optimism. She's my guest blogger today, sharing with you how Noonday is empowering her as well as her customers and the artisans that make all the beautiful accessories in the Noonday Collection. PLUS, if you are a U.S. reader and leave a comment for us on this blog answering the question "How do you empower women?" by 9PM CST February 15th, you'll be in a drawing to win a Noonday Collection scarf!
Thank you, Julia, for sharing your story.
Julia's Story
As a Noonday Collection
Ambassador, I regularly stand in front of hostesses and their guests telling stories about artisans who make the gorgeous handmade
jewelry and accessories I showcase in their homes. While they sip
wine, I tell them about how lives are transformed, because of the power having a
job. I show them how amazing they look wearing a statement necklace made by one of our artisans. I empower them to
change the world and feel beautiful at the same time.
But, here's my secret: Each time I stand up in front of a group of customers, I am trembling (and sweating). The voices in my head say that I'm not pretty enough, thin enough, well-spoken enough, outgoing enough, or confident enough to do this justice.
But, here's my secret: Each time I stand up in front of a group of customers, I am trembling (and sweating). The voices in my head say that I'm not pretty enough, thin enough, well-spoken enough, outgoing enough, or confident enough to do this justice.
I advocate on behalf of
women---women who depend on the job they have to live, and that happens
because of my voice, and your purchases. It’s something I feel very called to do...in spite of my sweaty armpits!
I recently returned from Austin,
Texas where I had the privilege of meeting some of Noonday’s partner artisans.
It’s incredibly humbling to meet these ladies. This is Ana:
Ana lives in Guatemala and learned the beautiful tradition of blackstrap loom weaving from her mother when she was just seven years old. As she grew, she became unsatisfied with the way she saw economic opportunities for women in her village. She sought out ways to make a difference. At the age of 28, she now owns a business and employs 30 female artisans. Ana partners with Noonday to make beautiful scarves. In this picture, you can see how each one is made. It takes five hours to weave one.
I’ve adopted a really powerful mental exercise that I learned from Melissa Russell, from the International Justice Mission, that she uses before she asks people for money to help her end human trafficking.
Ana lives in Guatemala and learned the beautiful tradition of blackstrap loom weaving from her mother when she was just seven years old. As she grew, she became unsatisfied with the way she saw economic opportunities for women in her village. She sought out ways to make a difference. At the age of 28, she now owns a business and employs 30 female artisans. Ana partners with Noonday to make beautiful scarves. In this picture, you can see how each one is made. It takes five hours to weave one.I’ve adopted a really powerful mental exercise that I learned from Melissa Russell, from the International Justice Mission, that she uses before she asks people for money to help her end human trafficking.
I imagine myself sitting down next to Ana, and telling her that I just don't feel confident enough to stand before you, because I’ve gained five pounds, and you have really pretty friends, and over 20 of them will be there, and I get really, really sweaty. It sounds ridiculous, doesn’t it?! 20 ladies who can use their purchasing power for good, so that Ana can hire more single mamas to do weaving. I want to talk to those ladies, and tell them all about Ana!
In spite of myself, and because
of the women I represent, I’m an ambassador. And I work at it, so that I can do
it better!
Here's what Ana has taught me,
and there's something here for you, too. Ana knows she's enough. She
was 20-years-old when she started her business. At twenty, she was giving single
mamas the opportunity to weave in their homes, so that they can also take care
of their small children! And here's the truth:
You are enough! I am enough, and so is that pretty/thin/well-spoken/confident woman across the room. Her “enough-ness” doesn’t diminish my own. And we can elevate the worth of all women when we stop listening to the voices that tell us where we fall short, and start empowering those around us.What if we all chose to live wholeheartedly, and pour into women around us, rather than listen to the voices in our heads saying that we don't measure up? When we stomp those voices out, and believe that we are enough, we have the power to change the world!
Ana has this dream of building
her business to provide jobs for 100 women! Isn’t that incredible? I want to
help her on her way to that goal today. Enter to win the scarf
Ana was making by answering this question in the
comments by 9PM CST February 15th:
How do you empower women?
We
ALL empower the women around us--each one of you can add a voice to this
conversation. I can't wait to hear what you have to say!
I don't know if I "empower" women in the terms of which you speak. I like to think I play a small part in helping them discover the power they hold in defending themselves in an emergency. Hopefully, they never have the need to use their ability - maybe just knowing they can gives them confidence, awareness, and a sense of power.
ReplyDeleteI don't know if I "empower" women in the terms of which you speak. I like to think I play a small part in helping them discover the power they hold in defending themselves in an emergency. Hopefully, they never have the need to use their ability - maybe just knowing they can gives them confidence, awareness, and a sense of power.
ReplyDeleteI can affirm that you do exactly that, Sarah! You and the other Tae Kwon Do instructors have indeed empowered me and given me great confidence in the way my body moves. Of course, I'd prefer to never be tested in a real life emergency, but I no longer feel like I would freeze and do nothing...I would have a plan. Without the patient, repetitive teachings you and others give me, I would have never, ever considered stepping IN to an attack. I also know my black belt daughter will never feel helpless in close quarters with anyone who would try to harm her now or when she is off to college.
ReplyDeleteI am a volunteer with RESULTS, an international organization that trains and supports ordinary citizens to lobby their national governments to work harder to end poverty, both in our own countries and globally. We work to pass legislation that will improve our efforts on domestic and global health, education and financial self-sufficiency, and to increase our nations' funding of those programs. Women and girls benefit enormously from these efforts, and their children in the next generation experience better health and well being. Educated girls grow up to be stronger contributors to their families, their communities and their nations.
ReplyDeleteThanks, ladies! Sarah won our little giveaway and I'll be in touch with her to get the beautiful scarf to her. Thanks to Julia and Noonday Collection for all they do!
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